• Warl0k3@lemmy.worldOP
      14·
      1 month ago

      Yeah, that plus the leverage made this particularly fun!

      (please excuse the cropping on this one, I’m feeling astonishingly lazy this morning…)

  • FluyOnTheWall@lemmynsfw.com
    3·
    1 month ago

    So, from your other comments you seem to enjoy this pain(?). I’ve always found that fascinating. I get why people enjoy the pain from impact play or even clamps and similar things, but how do you eroticise pain from being in an uncomfortable position?

    I’d love if you could talk about that a little bit. :)

    • Warl0k3@lemmy.worldOP
      2·
      1 month ago

      Oh sure! I think the big difference here is between people who get off on pain as an act of submission (much more common) and true ‘masochism’ (hurt me enough and I’ll cum). I do both, but one is a learned social dynamic that’s a great deal of fun and one’s more of a brain-wiring thing. That, plus I’m pretty autistic and have always had a atypical relationship with pain add up to “Built different, but not in a snooty way”.

      • FluyOnTheWall@lemmynsfw.com
        1·
        1 month ago

        Thanks so much for your answer! :)

        I find the “hurt me enough and I’ll cum” interesting. All masochists I’ve talked to wouldn’t exactly get off at the dentist - that’s also my experience with pain. Is that different for you?

        Please tell me to bugger off if I’m being too forward here.

        • Warl0k3@lemmy.worldOP
          1·
          1 month ago

          (Oh you’re fine! Obviously I just hate talking about kink…)

          “Hurt me = cum” is admittedly a bit of an oversimplification on my part: context does matter (if your dentist hauled off and kissed you in the middle of a procedure you’d probably be more confused than turned on) for example, but more relevant is the type of pain - oral stuff doesn’t do it for me (okay, it does, but not the kind of pain you get at the dentist), but shutting my hand in a drawer or really bashing myself on a shelf super can, to the point it makes being clumsy in public really awkward sometimes. You get used to it, sure, but it’s still more of a brain wiring thing than a contextual thing.

          • FluyOnTheWall@lemmynsfw.com
            1·
            30 days ago

            The type of pain being relevant makes a lot of sense. I guess that goes for all stimuli - just because I like fairly noisy and repetitive music doesn’t mean I enjoy listening to construction noise.

            Does it have to be events of pain or can it be continuous? Is predicament pain like in the picture enough to make you cum?

            I find the thought of you hitting your shin or something and having to suppress a moan very charming, by the way. :)

  • FluyOnTheWall@lemmynsfw.com
    3·
    1 month ago

    I thought the picture was flipped until I realised the door didn’t reach the “floor”. :D

    Really inventive tie, I love it! Please tell me someone was in the room with you, though, because that looks dangerous.

    • Warl0k3@lemmy.worldOP
      13·
      1 month ago

      Thank you! It was a weird tie (tho all the blood was in my head so IDK if I was a great judge of complex knots at the time). And yeah no worries, responsible adult supervision was indeed present.

    • Warl0k3@lemmy.worldOP
      4·
      1 month ago

      Oh boy, I kinda lost track of time but I think I tapped out a minute or two after the OP photo was taken. That really was an amazingly painful predicament!

      • exception@lemmynsfw.com
        2·
        1 month ago

        Sounds like you are challenging your own pain threshold regularly. Very exciting to witness, so thank you for sharing.

  • jsway@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    1·
    1 month ago

    What if someone was eating your pussy and giving you their cock to suck on, would that make any difference 🫣

  • JRaccoon@discuss.tchncs.de
    1·
    1 month ago

    Lovely pic. And wow, 10 minutes is a lot, I don’t think I could do it. I sometimes try hanging upside down from a bar at the gym and my head starts to seriously hurt after only a minute or so and I have to stop. But I think it depends a lot on the person.