In my thirties my living situation has become more stable. If it has for you as well, what’s the next big thing on your mind, or is there one?
Enjoying my life
Plus identifying and removing/fixing things that get in the way of that
Trying to maintain internal and external peace.
Right now I’m racing to work out a mortgage, this will grant me a significant “pay raise”, after that I don’t really have an end goal, other than becoming entirely debt free.
I thought about my “life goals” recently, I have nothing that needs fixing, nothing to set a proper goal post on.
This is kinda how I feel. On one hand it’s a little refreshing, on the other IDK seems a little like I’m laying the groundwork for a mid life crisis
My social life. Strengthening my social circle. Improving my friendships with existing friends, finding new ones and having great experiences with them. And maybe also finding a partner if that opportunity presents itself.
My top priority is to get myself in a good position to enjoy my 40’s. I’m paying down debt, getting fit, and having health issues checked out and fixed. I’m also trying to improve my mental health by tackling bad habits and personality flaws that I’d always assumed weren’t a big deal and/or would go away once I was an adult, but they haven’t.
I’m saving to pay for my children’s education and prepare for retirement.
Early 30s was finding a partner. Now it’s raising a child.
