• @esadatari@lemmy.world
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      11 months ago

      personally i can’t stand it when it’s something i tune in for only for the content and they insist on putting themselves in there to build their own brand or whatever.

      it’s like, “dude i came for the fucking spider, show me the fucking spider.”

      the character’s chosen times to smile seems to match up with my pet peeve is ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    • @glimse@lemmy.world
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      511 months ago

      Scrolling down there page when the host is staring at you so you can listen to them (and see the bug on the table) without the eye contact

      I don’t have autism but I’ve totally done this. No problems with most YouTubers but I find some of them…unsettling

    • @webbOP
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      411 months ago

      A quick way to break eye contact is to scroll.

    • @webbOP
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      YouTubers Stop Staring Into My Soul With Your Face Smooshed Against The Camera As You Talk About Computers Challenge (IMPOSSIBLE)

    • @goji@lemmy.ca
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      511 months ago

      Evolutionary psychology is behind one of the primary theories, in the simple way that it’s prudent for us to be wary of things that might hurt us. Bugs can sting, bite, invade, cause sickness/death, or poison us.

      There’s also the disgust aversion angle, which is tied to the relationship between a lot of bugs and indirect environmental threats (also ties into evolutionary reasoning) like rotting things, or corpses specifically.

      In the broadest strokes, we associate bugs with pain, disease, death, and decay.

    • @webbOP
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      311 months ago

      Arachnids also include scorpians and ticks, so spiders it makes sense humans evolved that way. Perhaps some proto-spider was a lot more dangerous.

      Though, jumping spiders are pretty chill and what got me to be less afraid of spiders. They’re tiny, they’re adorable, they’re really friendly, and for some reason they didn’t trigger the same arachnophobic response in me. I have a theory that perhaps jumping spiders fed on ticks and other bugs that ancestors of ours might’ve had, and so we became less afraid of them. Spiders cooperating with other species isn’t new, such as the dotted humming frog.

      • Moegle
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        111 months ago

        Jumping spiders have two large eyes, proportionately chunky bodies, and short, thick legs, making them the spiders that most resemble mammals. We’re pretty keen on mammals as a species, so it would make sense that a spider with mammal-like traits is less scary/creepy/“other” to us.

    • @Sketchpad01@lemmy.world
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      211 months ago

      It is! Bugs spread disease, and humans that kept away from bugs got less sick, so evolution being what it is, we are now afrade of bugs.

  • @Gsus4@lemmy.one
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    11 months ago

    Yea, fuck people and their layers interpersonal ulterior self-predatory bullshit, I can stare at spiders and ants… or most other animals for hours 🤓

  • @SternburgExport@feddit.de
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    311 months ago

    Kinda. I do get uncomfortable when someone in a YT video makes eye contact but not to a point where I have to scroll down. Looking away is usually fine.

    • @webbOP
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      111 months ago

      For me, I scroll so I can peak at the bottom of the video and wait for it to cut elsewhere.

  • @Halasham@dormi.zone
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    211 months ago

    Yep, I feel this. A few of my favorite narration YT channels have moved from being either colored captions or just background to the narrator standing in front of a camera and making ‘eye contact’ with it.

  • @DaSaw@midwest.social
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    111 months ago

    Hey there, my dudes! Welcome to my five minutes promotional video for thirty seconds of content! Today we’re going to…