Ever had one those moments in life when you know, beyond any shadow of a doubt, you are making a very, very bad decision, with a great chance for instant regret and a miserable, probably long lasting, outcome and notheless followed that path?

Yeah, that one. Care to share with us?

I’ll start. I dated a person, after we had already dated for a very short time, during which I was cheated on and eventually was left for a fourth person.

Yeah, not my brightest moment. And yes, I was cheated on again and again was left for another person.

  • @fleabs@lemmy.world
    101•9 months ago

    That time I came inside her while drunk. 19 years later, I don’t regret the daughter I have, but the child support payments haven’t exactly been easy…

    • PP_GIRL_
      -15•9 months ago

      Remember fellas, just because she can’t consent when she’s drunk sure as fuck doesn’t mean you can’t, too

      • Blake [he/him]
        43•9 months ago

        I’ve read this comment five times and I still don’t understand what you were trying to say.

        • PP_GIRL_
          -31•9 months ago

          I’m saying that being drunk isn’t considered a valid excuse for men like it is for women. If the original commenter was a woman who said she regretted having unprotected sex while she was drunk, white knights would be lining up to tell her she was a victim of rape. Very rarely are people sympathetic to men who make poor sexual decisions while drunk

          • Blake [he/him]
            12•9 months ago

            A “valid excuse” for what? You might have a good point in this comment, but it’s very clear that you’re not making it in good faith.

            Rape is one of the least successfully prosecuted crimes. Maybe internet commenters would say that, but that’s meaningless - meanwhile, rapists get away with it 98% of the time, but yeah, clearly we’re being too tough on men. 🙄