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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Foreign_Tree_5626 on 2023-09-19 22:20:34.
She (31F) started talking about how one of her friend’s going to invite us to a wedding, and since then I (32M) dreaded the thought of a bachelorette party for the friend.
Said friend essentially had an affair without the sex and my wife seems to have taken a supportive stand to these endeavours. Since they became friends, she started to express interest in open relationships and she gets upset if I show the slightest hint of jealousy. She said things like if I’m going to be jealous she just won’t tell me what happened on any company parties she attended. She once said if I don’t pull myself together (when I had a serious case of burnout) she might just open our relationship one-sidedly. She once told me her friend told her if she wanted a similar relationship to her affair she would cover for her.
I know learned that a bachelorette party is already in the planning and there will be a Chippendale there.
I try to not be jealous, or behave hurt when she goes out. I try to be supportive of her socializing, cause I know it’s hard for her and she does not have many friends and it’s hard for her to make me ones.
She’s otherwise a shut-in pretty much and has given me no reason to doubt her or be jealous. WIBTA?
Without reading the post, yes you WBTAH.
Basically OP is in a relationship with a woman who doesn’t wanna be exclusive and won’t be even if OP disagrees to being open. The issue is not the party.