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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Complete_Citron_7854 on 2023-09-11 19:44:03.

My husband & I are expecting, I’m 3 months in and to be hones, I’ve gained a little bit of weight recently and I didn’t think it was an issue because I thought it’s due to pregnancy, but my husband kept nagging me about how this weight I’ve gained isn’t related to pregnancy and kept saying that I needed to watch what I eat and all that.

He didn’t stop bringing it up til the doctor told him it was due to pregnancy that I gained weight. He didn’t say a word after that. However, last week when I was checking his phone, I looked at his chat with his friend group and saw that he posted a pic of my most recent ultrasound and said “if the baby is this small, where does all this weight come from?”. Basically ranting/complaining to his friends about it and saying he was right in that this weight is me “eating much”. I was stunned to see this and we got into a huge argument about it. He kept stalling saying I was wrong to snoop on his convos with his buddies, that I didn’t give him any chance to talk etc…

I got so mad and ended up telling him I won’t be letting him come with me to any dr. Appointmdnts after that. He threw a fit saying I had no right to make this decision and that he’s just worried about my health, and then got his family involved in the issue. Now they’re calling me bossy and unreasonable.

He’s been cold shouldering me for days now, AITA for my decision?