So, hear me out.

I’m a 47 year old guy and I’m not ashamed to say that I enjoy video games. I always have, from playing Head over Heels on a Speccy +2 to ESO and Valorant on my self built PC.

Due to various life circumstances, I’m also on the dating scene and to most women I meet, around my age, video games are anathema. When I say that I like them it’s usually meet with an “oh dear” or a “my son would probably love to talk to you about them, I find them really boring”

I have two boys, both teenagers, both play all the time and sometimes we all play together (although they are better as they have more time to apply to games). Their friends are amazed that I will talk about games with them, that I know someone about games and that I play games. None of their parents want to talk with them about what is effectively their main hobby that they do all the time (big sad).

So the question, there must be some sort of cut off age at which video games are no longer an acceptable pastime. Is it absolute age based (nothing after 35) or is it something to do with the progression of games into popular culture and people born after, say, 1986 will not see it as unacceptable?

I don’t have an answer, I just think it’s an interesting question. Thanks for reading, let me know what you think!

Edit to add: I’m not planning on stopping through peer pressure, just wondering about the phenomenon!

  • MentalEdgeEnglish
    2•1 year ago

    The hell? There’s no age-gate for anything. Except maturity. If you think someone enjoying something is childish, instead of feeling happy for them, then you’re the one who has growing up to do.

    Books are also a great hobby, which many find boring, but it’s never considered an age thing just because the typical adult isn’t into reading books. The same goes for games. Not everyone enjoys them, but that’s a matter of personal taste, not age. Sure, our tastes can change during our lives, and some people “grow-out” of their childhood interests. But that might be more correlation than causation.

    Take my dad, for instance, I remember him gaming on his PC and PS1 during my pre-teens, but he stopped gaming for many years. But recently, he got BACK into gaming, and asked me to build him a modern PC to play on, since it’s been so long since he’s used non-apple computers. These days, when he finds the right type of game for himself, he is more difficult to get away from it then I am.

    Games are a new medium, and new things get adopted first by new generations. So maybe older ones consider them a “kids” thing, but at 26, I see no reason why video games would ever stop being a part of my life.