• MangoCat
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    2 小时前

    it’s just funny she took it personal

    Found an insecurity. Probably should leave it alone in the future, unless you’re close enough for her to actually open up and let you help her work through it (very rare, not just among “work sisters” but even close platonic friends, in my travels.)

    • Bipauler@sh.itjust.works
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      42 分钟前

      Shit. I accidentally deleted another wall of text. I guess the gist of it was. Maybe I have a hard time realizing that I was poking an insecurity that was bigger than I realized and assumed that as much grief is she would give me a. It was pretty light-hearted but. You’ve given me something to think about in the future. No longer at that job but I know I have noticed I have a hard time sometimes picking up on people’s. I don’t know what to say emotions, or something? I thought I was good at it but maybe it’s not picking up on them but interpreting them. Anyway, thank you for giving me some food for thought that I might have just been being a little more of a bully and less of a buddy at that point in time. It was never really my intention. I usually have a hard time coming out of my shell and then they finally got me out of my shell and I probably embarrassed myself and irritated people so many times after that because I know I have trouble with communication.