So I’m a 35 year old male in a group where me and this girl joke around. She’s a bit “dominate” I guess and tries to be in control. However I don’t really take shit from people and will keep talking if she tells me to stop talking and say what I want. She talks about wanting to bang. Apparently me giving her shit (which I do with all of my friends) and not putting up with her means I’m flirting…am I flirting?
Also she keeps saying she “would me eat me alive” I honestly have no idea what that means, so if anyone knows please let me know.
Flirting looks different to different people. Likely, she is either into you or feels safe enough to be flirty with you in a manner that she doesn’t with others, potentially without intent of going further.
Saying that she would eat you alive is her saying that she is confident in her sexual prowess and appetite (or wants to project such). If you’re not available or interested, could get awkward. If you are, probably just roll with it.