I’ve seen “let alone” used on Lemmy a good number of times now and, at least when I noticed it, it was always used incorrectly. It’s come to a point where I still feel like I’m being gaslit even after looking up examples, just because of the sheer amount of times I’ve seen it used outright wrong.
What I’m talking about is people switching up the first and last part. In “X, let alone Y” Y is supposed to be the more extreme case, the one that is less likely to happen, or could only happen if X also did first.
The correct usage: “That spaghetti must have been months old. I did not even open the box, let alone eat it.”
How I see it used constantly: “That spaghetti must have been months old. I did not eat it, let alone open the box.”
Other wrong usage: “Nobody checks out books anymore, let alone visits the library.”
Why does this bug me so much? I don’t know. One reason I came up with is that it’s boring. The “wrong” way the excitement always ramps down with the second sentence, so why even include it?
I am prepared to be shouted down for still somehow being incorrect about this. Do your worst. At least I’ll know I keep shifting between dimensions where “let alone” is always used differently or something.
You can of course attempt to define it any way you want. But if society, through your interactions in aggregate rejects it, then it doesn’t change language.
I get you’re doing the whole, when language is relative if loses all meaning, but honestly, do you not get the point that language is a social phenomena? Does this make you feel good?
No I do not mind that language is relative, that it evolves, etc. I don’t even mind when words used in different patterns of phrasing can mean the opposite. I mind when the exact same phrase can mean two diametrically opposed things because asinine common use had misunderstood the original intent of the word so badly that we all are stuck dealing with it. If the exact same phrase can mean two completely opposite things, then it means neither. It requires the rest of the context around it to define it, meaning it is a functionally useless statement.
If “in” means in and out, it means neither. If “some” means some and none, it means neither. If “anxious” means anxious and eager, it means neither. A perfectly useful word was turned into a meaningless one. It’s bad semantics.
If context resolves the meaning, then I don’t see how it’s functionally useless. In one context, anxious means “worry” and in another context it means “eager”. It continues to be useful because of context.
I’m really having trouble seeing the issue you’re having given the light of how context resolves it. It functions within context. A word with multiple meanings resolves with context. “A bat flew by me” doesn’t mean it’s meaningless. It requires further context.
I don’t know why you’re applying normative standards to semantics. Linguistics is not a normative field. It’s descriptive. This is the heart of the issue. Semantics are not definitions.