Everyone knows relationships are hard work. Everyone knows that relationships hit roadblocks and whatever the fuck else. Fucking why. What’s the point? Be with a person that you mostly tolerate most of the days that you exist? And even then, they still might betray you in a horrible way. I’ve dealt with a lot of pain and stress and loss in my life, and when the happy shit gets sour, I just don’t fucking get it. Why not just live my life fucking off and dying eventually.

  • @silkroadtraveler@lemmy.today
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    43 months ago

    Voluntary bachelorhood is bliss. More money, more time, more travel. No looming decades of childcare bills, healthcare bills, or the relatively high probability of maintenance payments til death.

    • Dr. Wesker
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      43 months ago

      “Volbach” should be the term.

        • Dr. Wesker
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          23 months ago

          Kinda weird it hurts your feelings that much, bud.

          • @BitchPeas@lemmy.world
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            3 months ago

            It just is the literal term? Sorry if that hurts your feelings, sweetheart. Nothing wrong with a fuckboy who’s upfront.

            • Dr. Wesker
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              13 months ago

              Ah, I get it. A man who chooses his own money, time, and interests over a romantic relationship somehow threatens you on a deeper psychological level. Kind of pathetic.

              • @BitchPeas@lemmy.world
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                -13 months ago

                Dude what? No. Calm down. Google Fuckboy. It’s that easy. Let me help you.

                fuckboy ˈfʌkbɔɪ noun vulgar slang derogatory 1 a weak or contemptible man. 2 a man who has many casual sexual partners

                So the second use case. Unless you mean a voluntary bachelor is having noncasual relationships and intercourse with one woman? Then moving in? And sharing a life?

                Again, nothing wrong with a fuckboy who is open about things being casual and uninterested in further relationship development and intimacy.