I play guitar and drums. I want to find friends to play with, but I’m not connected into any music circles. Currently, my social circle is only salsa and bachata dancers. Any ideas how I can find others?

ps - I’m pretty socially anxious and autistic, so making friends takes me extra effort and time.

  • Schwim Dandy
    6•6 months ago

    Your story basically mimics mine. Guitar and drums, always wanted to play with others but at 50 years old, I jam every day by myself at home.

    Other than about 6 months in my 20s, I’ve not played music with others. I want to but I don’t interact with others and the thought of trying to is overwhelming.

    I hope you overcome your aversion. The 6 months I did jam with others was magical.