Self-hoster/FOSS Pronouns: He/Him

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Cake day: August 18th, 2021

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  • It sounds like you’ve bent over backwards to the accommodate the whims of this person.

    Prioritize yourself and your interests like you’re prioritizing hers. Do something for yourself that you wanna do that she is welcome to join in but you are gonna spend time doing that thing you like. Make your time and interests valuable, spending time with you shouldn’t be a chore to whoever you’re with.

    Wrt not seeing you as a man, that’s pretty shitty and non validating. And making assumptions of your preferences in partners etc isn’t very cool. Maybe that’s a conversation to have and see how she changes her tune.