

Assuming the info in this link is correct, ZFS is using ~20GB for caching which makes htop’s ~8GB of in use memory make sense when compared with the results from cat /proc/meminfo. This is great news.
My results after running cat /proc/spl/kstat/zfs/arcstats:
c 4 19268150979
c_min 4 1026222848
c_max 4 31765389312
size 4 19251112856









Came across some more info that you might find interesting. If true, htop is ignoring the cache used by ZFS but accounting for everything else.
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