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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • Unfortunately, the first lesson I learned from GMing is that the story I planned is shit. The only reason these stories are worth telling is because the players make decisions you don’t expect and the dice send things in crazy directions. If there is no chance of failure, success is meaningless.

    Instead, I let the dice tell whatever story they like, and I turn that into a better story than I could come up with. And if a roll would genuinely make things terrible if they didn’t roll a specific way, I don’t roll at all.

    I tried fudging once. The players could tell, and the story lost all tension. Now I roll in the open, and every roll is exciting.


  • They were not antagonistic until AFTER your dismissive, antagonistic comment. The most antagonistic part of that initial comment is a direct response to you saying the same thing. Heck, you responded to his “sorry” with “not sorry”, just to be a jerk. You were the first one to be uncivil.

    You’re right, I am not a mod, and have no idea how mod tools work. But based on how the comments of mine that were removed were visible in the mod logs, I had assumed you did something to hide them. I was wrong. My mistake.

    There were three comments you had removed at the time I made my first ruling. 2 and 3 deserved removal. 1 did not. 2 and 3 were included in your screenshot. 1 had been left out. You definitely cherry-picked that thread.

    When I said “just now”, I was referring to something that happened within the hour I was writing, and which happened after the last time I spoken on the subject. Please don’t get stuck on a detail that minute. It’s not worth it.

    You’re fully allowed to respond, and to offer your own defence. My issue is where you say “YDI.” You’re the potential PTB. You’re innately biased in favour of yourself. The rest of your comment is fine, but that rings an alarm bell of bad faith to me.


  • Those comments are weirdly hostile, and do deserve removal and a temp ban.

    However, based on your own comments being hostile and overly invested, I would have removed YOURS as well. Add in you removing the perfectly civil top comment (which, despite you restoring just now, you haven’t included in the screen shot), the obfuscating of the mod logs in the initial removal, and you coming here to give a ruling on your own behaviour (you cannot be impartial on that), I cannot say you’re in the right here.

    BPR.