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  • GaMEChld@lemmy.worldtoYUROP@feddit.orgThe radical left
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    12 hours ago

    Oh, and don’t beat yourself up about it. My parents were both doctors and one was a neurologist, and I managed to get to 34 with 3 undiagnosed conditions that handicapped my entire life until that point.

    Now I’m 38 39 (Time Blindness) and self diagnosed with:

    ADHD Combined Type - Severe

    Narcolepsy

    Autism - Extreme Systemizer - Type S

    And then self corrected all three with positive coping mechanisms.


  • 🧩 Hold on a second, I’m detecting a lot of Projection from everyone in this thread automatically assuming the worst case interpretation of one another as a maladaptive coping mechanism.

    Asylum seekers are not criminals. They followed a legal procedure. No one is arguing for criminals staying here.


  • 🧩 Why is he stupid? I don’t get it… These social mediums that are only text based feel rife with the psychological concept of Projection. We tend to respond with negative emotion because we assume the worst case interpretation as a risk mitigation system, to prevent the worst case interpretation from impacting you. An act of self defense.




  • Correct. But not wholly correct. There are legitimate advancements being made by the serious ppl. But 99% yeah, it’s a smokescreen and everyone sees it coming a mile away, and they think we’re fucking stupid. They have no respect for us, the common people.

    They are too busy robbing their own children of a future metaphorically, and then finishing up by raping and eating said children on the island.

    Why?

    Because:

    Darkseid

    is.

    Edit: Which is why I opted out of the system. I play games for fun. Unfair games are inherently not fun, so I stopped playing. Made a straight 🐝 Line to the exit.

    Bought a house when the historic market low hit after 2008 recession during 2013.

    Paid it down aggressively in 10 years with a cherry 2.3% interest rate.

    Solar panels and efficiency upgrades to decrease lifetime cost of living.

    Rent 50% of property for supplemental rental income (charging UNDER market rate intentionally because I am not trying to be greedy).

    Filled property tax grievance to drive property tax down as much as possible.

    In 2024 I retired at age 38 by allowing my unethical employer to walk into a wrongful termination lawsuit because they are morons who think they know more than me.

    Litigation in progress but I can confidently predict the outcome.

    They will either settle for 1 million, or take my custom package. If they value their pride they will settle. If they value money, they will take my custom package. If they litigate it will likely destroy their company. 1.6 million in fees and defense costs, a humiliating public loss, and then I will go tell local news just to finish them off for fun.

    Oh and I did all that with a few emails and a couple forms for $0. Just answering the complaint alone has cost them $60k so far.

    FATALITY.



  • GaMEChld@lemmy.worldtoYUROP@feddit.orgThe radical left
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    9 hours ago

    🧩 Oh sorry, ADHD and short term memory issue, um, it’s a false dichotomy. Both are simultaneously true and false for complicated reasons that must be granularly broken into smaller pieces. Wave function must be split into more isolated waves for further systemic analysis.

    False dichotomy is a common logical fallacy showing that the premise of the question was fundamentally flawed and logically incoherent.

    Was that sufficient? Or more questions?

    Edit:

    Just wanted to point out:

    I have many reasons to think that, but I’ve learned not to speak unless asked.

    Followed by:

    And yet you did not answer the question.

    Observation: Watched the down votes triggered by a fear response; a sign that my comment threatened a sense of identity.

    Result:

    🧩I intentionally formed my words carefully to illicit a predicted conversation pathway. I wanted you to point that out so we could actually communicate in the same reference frame.




  • GaMEChld@lemmy.worldtoYUROP@feddit.orgThe radical left
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    17 hours ago

    That’s the beauty of it!

    🧩 Incoming hyper rational autistic response:

    In my life I’ve absorbed a ton of information. Additionally, my condition causes me to view reality as an infinitely nested and webbed mapping of integrated systems recursively encompassing each other.

    As such, I tend to rationalize things down an abnormal amount of iterative steps. Normal people learn a fact. Me? I assume I’m wrong by default cuz that’s what an autistic person is often told growing up; you’re wrong about everything.

    So the way I learned was by asking why recursively until the question could be asked no longer. Desperately trying to figure out why I am wrong surely there’s some missing information.

    Then I realized it’s not me, I’m just seeing more steps down the road and failing to grasp that normal people don’t look that far down the road to heat death of the universe.

    Anyway, from what I’ve seen, I’ve noticed a EXPONENTIAL decrease in our society’s ability to rationalize concepts and accurately communicate those concepts. In my eyes, it seems to trace back to No Child Left Behind.

    I have many reasons to think that, but I’ve learned not to speak unless asked. So if anyone wants to know more from the perspective of a former Physics Teacher who was able to find the escape hatch out of this bs system and retire by 38, let me know. I’ll answer any question. Just don’t yell at me or call me rude please for speaking without inferences or assumptions, please.

    😅


  • GaMEChld@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldMember Star Wars?
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    23 hours ago

    Well I think the frustration is we want novel new experiences with old world quality. Not to play the old game. Nothing wrong with playing old games. But I understand the desire for something new AND good.

    Hence Expedition 33 being as well received as it was. The game was clearly made with passion, despite what you may personally think of the genre or other subjective traits.

    Look, humans are good at subconscious understanding. We can tell when something is made with love and something is made with greed.

    Sometimes we can’t articulate it. But we know.


  • 🧩 Hyper Rationalizing Autistic person here. My condition makes me view reality as systems within systems within systems with infinite recursion.

    I have read this post.

    I have not detected logical inconsistency in this theory… And all the facts that I know seem to support the hypothesis.

    And yes I know I sound like AI. Ironically, AI tools tell me that too. 😅

    If anyone wants to introduce a new premise or fact into the hypothetical scenario, I’ll let you know if it makes sense or not (to me).



  • I know, but I’m used to that by now. I’ve been met with much anger when expressing my thoughts, because when I was younger, I didn’t have the communication skills to understand where people were coming from.

    Now I do, so I just go meet them where they are and guide them to the truth that I know they know deep down.

    Anyone who chooses to make it a battle of wills generally finds that it’s easier to give up than keep talking to me.




  • 🧩The hyper rational autistic response:

    Your internal emotions are yours to manage. You have no rights to, or responsibility for other people’s emotions.

    As such, to respect the agency of every soul’s free will, the capacity to self regulate is a grave responsibility every individual has to the collective whole we call society.

    Tl;Dr (edit: Too Long; Here’s more!) ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    You should endeavor to be in control of your emotions, not be controlled by them, such that you may prevent hatred from ever spilling out of you and onto others (except perhaps unto agents of evil, but most people cannot tell the difference, safer to just not hate), and such that love is intentionally directed at your fellow neighbors who are abiding by the social contract.

    /End rambling