They’re not really expensive, I care more about how the dress fits in my body and how it looks on me. I’m just so poor that even cheap 30 euros stuff leaves me broke

How dare they only think about sex and not being able to see you as a human being capable of friendship. I don’t understand how you don’t see that as dehumanizing.

I never said I’m tolerant, I’m just venting. Men are annoying in general god forbid someone complains about them

It’s not even just relationships, it’s friendships

I know, but don’t pretend to want to know me or be my friend when you’re actually not.

Both, I don’t get what dating apps have to do with this

For me it was the complete opposite, I didn’t like nail polish, heels etc for years until now, nowadays I use a curling iron everyday, get my nails done, wear heels. You just go through phases and phases in your life it’s not about being trans

Well it was just an example of a cultural stereotype.

Exactly, I’m not attractive either but I don’t think I’m a better person for it. Being good in a relationship is about being mature enough.

I think it’s just my personality, I was bullied in highschool until I was 18 so I’m a very awkward person and that with low self-esteem overall it’s just unattractive. And well on top of that being trans it’s too many downsides for all guys.

Well I’m plain average in my opinion, here’s two picture of myself

I don’t drink alcohol tho

The problem is that I’m 1.60m and I’ve been harassed previously in an airport at broad daylight. That’s why I’m a bit scared to do this but I think I’ll stay by the police department

Hmmm I’m not sure all straight men had a passing by men 🤣

Uhhh I don’t know any of that, I’m Korean and we don’t have anything of that. Being trans is a separate thing from women, you’re technically not a man but not a woman either. Also you can’t be a biological woman, that’s not how it works 🤣 if you have XY chromosomes you are a male it doesn’t matter if you remove your genitals.

Sexist? I’m just attracted to what I’m attracted to. I can’t change that everyone has a type

Honestly I might give up on it, it’s not something that you really need to live 🤷🏻‍♀️

I don’t have these kinds of problems when I don’t disclose. And I’m not saying that I’ve dated anyone without disclosing but every male friend I had did end up trying to date me (my friends don’t know about it). I notice the difference in behavior, when they don’t know what I am they act as if I was the last glass of water in the desert.

Okay the issue here is, I’ve done this before and it didn’t work. And right now I’m not on a stage where I want to expose my transness to my social circle, what’s most likely to happen if I tell a guy who is into me is that he will be shocked and tell a lot of people. Also there’s barely any men interested in my hobbies unless they’re gay

Why match then? Lol

I’ve been on puberty blockers for 9 years and hormones for 7 years. Also I don’t identify as a woman, I’m Asian I know Americans and Europeans have a different view but at least in my country identifying as a woman is not a thing?