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  • So you don’t argue that it isn’t rape but just, that it is not legally rape in the UK.

    Just as a sidenote, It would be legally rape in e.g. germany.

    But I give you the point, because of the hand thing. While the conversation is probably not about doing something with their hand. But maybe the person has aids and is just supposed to inject their blood into the victims veins. Then it is not rape. Still a disgusting act of violence but no rape.





  • Well it wouldn’t be consensual if she would not disclose a known std to her partner when engaging in unprotected sex.

    For the same reason, “stealthing” is rape. Or “surprise analsex” is rape. Any deviation from what was consented to, is rape, especially if the intention was to misguided the victim.







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    Well, I said “e.g.” for a reason. Body shaming in general, but also stuff like pressuring/shaming men for rejecting sex.

    I am not surprised by your response as that is what I hear a lot before I start to point at recent specific examples that people are familiar with.

    But that conversation would be missing the point. The point is that people actively engaging in sexism are often very upset when the sexism turns against themselves and like to act as if their sexism is not the cause of e.g. insecurities. It is literally the most basic thing abusers (of the type) do.

    Again obviously, most people who express concern, aren’t the abuser. But abusers like to act like they care before continuing abuse.


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    Based on my personal experience with misandry, yeah.

    Not all women asking why are men e.g. insecure about penis size, are shaming men for their penis size. As most women aren’t misandrists.

    But all women shaming men for e.g. penis size, turn around and ask why, and are really upset about misogyny, while happily engaging in misandry.

    Some men do it too. Obviously.





  • Well… russia is known for being selective with whom they sent to the front line. E.g. if you live in Moscow, you are a lot less likely to be selected than from other regions of Russia. And people claim that Russia is doing so because that helps them to avoid public outcry in major cities.

    Given that the Russian public probably doesn’t give a shit about this guy, and we know that he was sent to the front line. He has probably been sent to the most dangerous front lines, repeatedly.