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  • RedAggroBest@lemmy.worldto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneIntroverted rule
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    8 days ago

    Yea, nah, I didn’t misunderstand. You are not describing the normal reaction. Outside the obvious of “too often” it’s pretty unreasonable to think that someone who shares a living space with you can’t invite people into what is also their home.

    If your home MUST be your space as much as you’re saying, you shouldn’t have roommates. The cat metaphor doesn’t work because these are temporary houseguests brought in by a co-equal member of the household who has equal rights to use of the space as you do.


  • From clinic to clinic might be different but even just a basic screening at Planned Parenthood tests for like 8 different things so no, pretty thorough is saying exactly enough and you’re just being stubborn.

    You give the exact “it’s just a little herpes” vibes that you mention elsewhere. Why else would you fight everyone so hard when EVERYONE is telling you it’s very easy to get tested for the whole host of most common STIs on the regular?



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    8 days ago

    Who is this actually happening to? If I or someone I live with have a friend over for that long, we/they’re probably doing something. If there was anything close to small talk with a roommate coming by, its “Hey! Wanna join us?”, to which “no thanks” is always a fine answer.