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  • PrivateNoob@sopuli.xyzbanned_from_community_badgetoAsklemmy@lemmy.mlwhat were the worst years of your school life?
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    3 days ago

    Maybe 5-6th grade, where I was bullied since the 1st grade non-stop and one of my coping mechanism perchance thanks to my homophobe mom, was just being blatantly hateful towards this group, but bum bumm bumm this silly little me realized that I’m actually bi af in 5th grade, so that definitely dug my self hatred in an even more profound level. I needed 7 years to change my internalized homophobia into self love and coming out.

    Life can be whacky, but I’m deeply proud of achieveing this feat.

    Message to OP: Make a post some days later with the complete opposite question. Spread some positivity :3








  • PrivateNoob@sopuli.xyztoVRChat@lemmy.worldQuick question
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    8 days ago

    Oh jeez that sounds like the worst luck you could have ever gotten. When I was younger / underage I always steered away or handled direct DMs with older strangers with some cautions (I’m in my mid 20’s now), but it’s understandable especially when a lot of these servers have a “friend-finder” channel where people can display their openness to get some friends.

    I can give you my link to the VR server I’m in, however I don’t want to coencerce you into if you feel trauma or distress, but I think trying to meet online people in groups should be safer than someone in private, however that might be hard initially if you are really anxious like I am. We believe in you tho!









  • I’m a casual / former femboy, but I’ve never actually seen an actual nazi femboy, but this is not even enraging at this point. Imagining a thigh high, “nyaah~ I love boooys winky face :3” femboy supporting the nazi regime sounds fucking hilarious. They would be among the first one in the deathrow if a nazi government would resurface. (Yes, I know about the SS officer crossdressers)

    But realistically speaking maybe these nazi femboys have the most amount of mental issues in their family, inside themselves which is sad to see, but only they can fix themselves.